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Magic is No Different Than Science in Fiction

That guy wrote “2001: A Space Odyssey,” so he should know! šŸ˜›

This is a subject that Iā€™ve been pondering for a while, but it was brought to a head for me this week when I, once again, heard a new host on a podcast I listen to make the typical ā€œmagic is always bad/evil in fictionā€ comment that all-too-many Christians have made for years. Iā€™m shocked there are still people adhering to this anti-Dungeons & Dragons propaganda that was prevalent during the ā€˜80s (the ā€˜80s, people! Thirty years ago!) What made this even more ironic was this particular host was my age or a little younger.

This host (who shall remain nameless) has made it clear on several occasions that he thinks magic, particularly when presented in a dark fashion, should never be presented in fiction. He even said when he guest-starred on podcast run by one of his co-hosts while discussing Wonder Womanā€™s origin in the animated film Justice League: Gods and Monsters, that he liked her ā€œmore science-basedā€ origin. The more I hear him, the more I realize that it isnā€™t just ā€œdarkā€ magic he opposed, but all magic. It makes me wonder if he hates Chronicles of Narnia or The Lord of the Rings just because they include magic, despite them being written by Christians.

Admittedly, I once held to similar views, so I canā€™t fault him too much. But with age (and education) came new ideas. Iā€™ve now concluded that magic is no different than science in speculative fiction. In other words, they arenā€™t evil in and of themselves.

Firstā€”and I owe my college chum Aaron Brosman for pointing me toward thisā€”while magic is regarded by many Christians as evil, they forget that evil is incapable of creating. This idea comes from J.R.R. Tolkien, author of The Lord of the Rings (I wish I could remember where he said it). Hereā€™s the logic behind it: 1) God is wholly good. 2) Everything was created by God. 3) Everything God created was good (Gen. 1:31). 4) Everything that is now ā€œevilā€ was once good. 5) Ergo, evil can only corrupt what was once good.

By extension, this means that God, not Satan, created magic. One only has to look at the miracles performed by prophets like Elijah, the Apostles, and, yes, Jesus Himself to see ā€œmagicā€ at work. They call fire from the sky (2 Kings 1:10), healed the sick (Acts 3), and even raised the dead (Elijah ā€“ 1 Kings 17:17-22; Jesus ā€“ John 11:1-44). In other words, fire magic, healing magic, and necromancy (sorta). And these were God-fearing men and the Savior Himself, not people like the Witch of Endor (no, she didnā€™t hang out with Ewoks).

The difference here is twofold: 1) the source of the ā€œmagicalā€ power, and 2) the motivations for using it. The purpose of magic, whether in real life or in fiction, is ultimately to acquire power. This manifests as command over the elements, animals, spirits, and/or people (curses, love spells, etc.). This grants the user certain abilities and/or privileges. So, the reason God forbade the practice of magic in passages like Deuteronomy 18:9-12 isnā€™t because the practices themselves but because mankind would use it to seek power separate from Him. This has been humanityā€™s tendency since Adam and Eve sinned. God knows this and doesnā€™t want anything to come between Him and His creation. Along with that, the source of much of those magical powers was demonic, so itā€™s also a form of protection. The Devil and his angels may promise power to those willing to ally with them, but in the end they will only exploit and torment those who fall into their clutches.

Now, that isnā€™t to say that all depictions of magic in fiction should be forbidden. The sources of the magic arenā€™t always demonic. Even when they are, theyā€™re presented as evil, or at the very least in a negative light. For Christians to shy away from the realities of evil is arguably naĆÆve.

So, I have a question for you: If magic is about the acquisition of power, how is it ā€œholierā€ than magic?

Stop and think about it. In both real life and fiction, sinful people use science to acquire power apart from God. Some perhaps think that by using science they can become gods themselves, in some way. Stories like Frankenstein by Mary Shelly touch on this theme. Dr. Frankenstein seeks to overcome death itself by conducting experiments to reanimate dead bodies. He uses science to violate the natural laws put in place by God Himself (mind you, death didnā€™t exist before the Fall, but I digress). In real life, humanity used science to create the nuclear bomb, a weapon whose power rivals that of mythical gods, if not God Himself. Speculative fiction is replete with mad scientists who seek power through the use of science. Are they any different from the sorcerers in fairy tales? But just like magic, God created science, so science isnā€™t inherently evil.

This is why Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount that it wasnā€™t enough to simply not murder or commit adultery. No, it someone was angry at his fellow man or lusted after someone, he was already guilty because he sinned in his heart. Itā€™s relatively easy to keep rules. Even the Pharisees did that. But Jesus cut through that and went straight to the, well, heart of the issue. It wasnā€™t enough to keep rules: what truly mattered was oneā€™s motivations and thought life. He later said, ā€œBut the things that come out of a personā€™s mouth come from the heart, and these defile them. For out of the heart come evil thoughtsā€”murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slanderā€ (Matthew 15:18-19).

So, no, magic isnā€™t the Devilā€™s creation. Writing characters who utilize supernatural power that isnā€™t demonic and for the right reasons isnā€™t immoral. Writing characters who do use demonic magic for acquiring power for evil purposes is true to life.

I would encourage you to take a closer look at what the Bible says about magic. Itā€™s not as simple as you think.

P.S. I understand there are people who may choose not to read/watch/play such stories because they were once involved in the occult, and I can respect that. Thatā€™s like an alcoholic avoiding beer.

What are your thoughts on this subject? Are magic and science no different?

In Defense of Extroverts

You may find it strange that Iā€™m blogging about this. Marti Olsen Laney, author of The Introvert Advantage, would have you believe that we live in an ā€œextroverted worldā€ since one in four people are introverts.

Then I, somehow, made friends in most of them. Seriously, most of my friends are on the introvert side of the spectrum. I have no idea how or why that happened.

It’s these sorts of statements that upset me. >:(

Sadly, Iā€™ve also known pretentious introverts who did nothing but sing the praises of introversionā€”and, by extension, themselvesā€”to the point of negatively stereotyping extroverts (insensitive, unintelligent, etc. Heck, one introvert I know even called them ā€œvampiresā€ since they re-energize being around other people). There are numerous articles saying that introverts are attractive and sexyā€”one even comparing them to James Bondā€”using descriptions that I thought were what any man should be in order to attract women. While they donā€™t come out and say itā€”and I admit I could be reading into thisā€”the implication seems to be that introverts make for superior spouses. Perhaps even superior human beings.

So, while I apparently live in an extroverted world, Iā€™ve run in circles that derided extroverts or at least my extroverted tendencies. Iā€™ve often hated my own personality because of it. I wasnā€™t allowed to get animated or boisterous: these were always unattractive social faux pas, no matter the context (I was even accused of being homosexual because of it, since, apparently, straight men are always introverted [note the sarcasm]). I can recall playing video games with a particularly pretentious introverted ā€œfriendā€ (who later stabbed me in the back) telling me the excited squeal I made when I pulled off something crazy was a sound that was meant only for the bedroom (Iā€™m sure you get what he meant). Disliking loneliness was a weakness. Being talkative was a sin. It even seemed at times that introversion was the ā€œmore Christianā€ personality to have.

Stop it with the stereotypes! Extroverts (and introverts, for that matter) are far more nuanced than many people realize. Just read this article on extroverts. It dispels the myths. Just because extroverts like being around people doesnā€™t mean they canā€™t stand being alone. Extroverts are human beings, and that means they sometimes lead some time to themselves. The opposite is true of introverts: humans are social creatures, and studies have shown that they are happier when connecting with each other, so introverts canā€™t hide in their rooms forever. One is not superior to the other. Anyone who says so is a narcissist trying to obliquely brag about how awesome he thinks he is.

Maybe this blog, in the long run, will serve less as a defense of extroverts and more a defense of my own personality. I admit that I take it personally any disparaging things said about extroverts. As you can see, itā€™s something that didnā€™t happen in a vacuum.

Itā€™s time extroverts and introverts alike learned to appreciate one another and learn from one another. Weā€™re all wonderful people with much to offer. We are equals.

Donā€™t silence the extrovertsā€”silence the prejudice.

Leap Day Blog: Itā€™s Not Easy, Being a Dreamer

Yes, I promised Iā€™d post two blogs Thursday. I didnā€™t get around to the second. I felt bad. Then I realized Monday was Leap Day. I couldnā€™t miss a chance to post something on a day that only comes once every four years. So, hereā€™s the bonus blog. šŸ˜›

Anywayā€¦

Iā€™m a dreamer living in a world that seems hostile toward such people. Iā€™m not the only one, though. Iā€™ve heard many stories about artists (though dreamers can also be scientists and missionaries, etc.) in particular who grew up in blue collar families/communities and were discouraged from pursuing their passions. ā€œGet a real job!ā€ theyā€™d be told. They didnā€™t understand the dreamersā€™ aspirations, their desire to do extraordinary things. No, these naysayers knew only of clocking in and out at their easily understood and quantifiable jobs and bringing home a paycheck.

I donā€™t say this to demean blue collar (or white collar) types. In fact, I admire their work ethic and down-to-earth attitudes. Many, if not most, are full of common sense and free of the delusions that pervade certain demographics of society.

However, oftentimes they are so down-to-earth, they canā€™t understand people who, for lack of a better term, has their heads in the clouds. Actors, writers, and directors, to name a few, often came from families like this who, at best, tolerated their kidsā€™ unusual interests or, at worst, tried to force them into the ā€œnormalā€ mold. This was usually done with good intentionsā€”wanting to make sure their kids could provide for themselvesā€”but it came at the expense of crushing their childrenā€™s souls. It was a forced denial of who they were. It made the dreamers live while dying inside.

I know this from experience. My father has a blue collar mentality. When I said I wanted to go to college to study writing, he was supportive. He even helped pay for it. But then a couple years ago, he revealed to me that when I made that decision, he thought I was crazy. He didnā€™t think I could make it as a writer. I was flabbergasted, disappointed, angry. This was the man who, just a few years before, read my first novel, Pandoraā€™s Box, and liked it; who read my newspaper articles and thought I was an ideal journalist because I didnā€™t put any biased spin in them. It was, to say the least, a bit of a blow, especially since I was (and am) a struggling artist.

My theory is people like this donā€™t understand dreamers for two reasons: 1) The dreamerā€™s path to success is more abstract, less direct, and less certain, and 2) the dreamerā€™s aspirations and goals are too ā€œpie-in-the-sky.ā€ Going to a factory or office and putting in oneā€™s eight-hour shift is simple and direct. The most such workers have to think about is perhaps moving up in the company and/or getting a raise. Dreamers have to take risks and think outside the box. Someone who aspires to start a nonprofit to, say, help inner city kids has to do fundraisers. Writers have to submit stories to publishers and agents. Actors have to attend auditions. In all these cases, thereā€™s no guarantee of success, and initial success doesnā€™t always guarantee ongoing success. They donā€™t get paid a salary or an hourly wage. The closest equivalent are independent contractors. Itā€™s also usually a slow, gradual process to becoming ā€œsuccessfulā€ for the dreamer. This is why most, including myself, hold down ā€œday jobsā€ until they reach a point where they earn a living doing their ā€œunorthodoxā€ dream jobs. These arenā€™t usually the most glamorous or high-paying of day jobs, which doesnā€™t reflect well on the dreamers. (Iā€™ve heard many stories of now-famous actors who worked at restaurants until they became successful).

Dreamers walk difficult roads, but if they stick it out, the results not only include a satisfying career for them, but changed lives for many others. Nonprofit organizations save lives. Writers and artists entertain and, most importantly, enlighten audiences with their art (if done right). Actors can do the same. The notoriety they gain through these can give them platforms from which they can do other great works.

This is why Iā€™m a dreamer. This is why I support dreamers.

If youā€™re a dreamer, donā€™t give up!

If you know dreamers, I hope you will encourage them.

Are you a dreamer? If so, what are your ā€œloftyā€ aspirations?

My (Overdue) Alma-Con Report

Iā€™m getting into a bad habit of not blogging in a timely fashion. Or on time. My friend/co-author Eric Anderson definitely kicked my butt on this one since he blogged about it two weeks ago! Hence why youā€™re getting this and another blog today.

Anyway, Eric asked me to join him at Alma-Con, a small but growing anime/fandom convention held at Alma College in Alma, Michigan (seeing a pattern here?) šŸ˜› He purchased a table to promote his nerd/geek outreach ministry, Nerd Chapel, but he was selling copies of our devotional book, 42: Discovering Faith Through Fandom, so he wanted me present. Heā€™d asked me to attend other cons with him, but I wasnā€™t able to make it, so this was exciting.

What follows will be similar to write Eric wrote about, but we did have some different experiences.

I arrived an hour or so after the con began. The vendorsā€™ hallā€”at least the one we were inā€”was only open for a few more hours. Not much happened while I was there except we met a panelist (whose name escapes me) who saw the title of our book and said, ā€œThat sounds like something Vic would say.ā€

Quoting Korath from Guardians of the Galaxy, I said, ā€œWho?ā€

He explained he was friends with Vic Mignogna, a popular anime voice actor (among other things). I was surprised to (re)learn that Vic was a Christian and went to panels to discuss faith in anime. This gentleman, Eric and I learned, was a practitioner of sect of Buddhism strangely similar to Christianity. He shared his story of how he came to this faith. He said heā€™d come back later to talk with us, but sadly, he never came. (If youā€™re reading this, please contact Eric and/or I!)

Eric (right) and I (left) as Martian Manhunter and Superman, respectively.
Eric (right) and I (left) as Martian Manhunter and Superman, respectively.

Saturday was the long day. Eric and I cosplayed. He was Martian Manhunter and I was Superman. I enjoyed wearing the costume because Iā€™ve gotten into better shape since the last time I wore it, and given that itā€™s, well, spandex, I was glad for that. The most interesting stories that came from that day was meeting a young man who was a member of the ā€œChurch of Satan,ā€ yet they didnā€™t worship Satan or even believe he existed, which was interesting. While Eric was gone, though, a belligerent cosplayer dressed as some blue-haired anime mad scientist (or something) came over and proceeded to insult me and denigrate Christianity while in character. I wasnā€™t sure what to think of it, so I just ran with it and smiled.

Two Alma College students were kind enough to give Eric and I their lunches from their meal plans, so we got some food from the college diner, Joeā€™s.

The Alma College students who kindly offered their lunches to us.
The Alma College students who kindly offered their lunches to us.

I, too, wandered around. It was then I learned one of my few gripes with the con: the buildings it was held in were too far apart. It was a Michigan winter, so obviously it was cold, and tights provide little protection against such weather. I did go check out the other artists and vendors, and as usual, I had to refrain from buying a bunch of stuff (including a book self-publishing comic books). I did purchase a replica of the fob watch used by David Tenant in two episodes of Doctor Who, though. It went great with my cosplay.

Speaking of which, once the vendor hall closed for the day, I changed into my 10th Doctor cosplay. Eric and I got dinner at Joeā€™s, where we met a fellow Whovian/cosplayer.

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The fob watch I bought for my 10th Doctor cosplay.
Me with a fellow Whovian cosplayer.
Me with a fellow Whovian cosplayer.

We then went to see MacSith, a play performed by a traveling theatre troupe from Chicago. It is Shakespeareā€™s MacBeth if it took place in the Star Wars universe. It. Was. FANTASTIC! It combined two of my favorite thingsā€”Shakespeare and Star Warsā€”in a seamless and wonderful fashion. Thankfully, I donā€™t have to describe it all to you since, unlike most theatre, they allowed (non-flash) photography and video to be taken. The costumes, the fight choreography, the little Star Wars flavoring to the original dialogueā€”it was amazing.

Sadly, I couldnā€™t say the same for the next event Eric and I attended. It was billed as a ā€œmasquerade ball.ā€ Since weā€™ve had ballroom dance training, we were interested in going to this unlike the rave that was held the night before. The con program even said there was a dress code, and the organizers reserved the right to turn people away if they didnā€™t abide by it (hence my 10th Doctor cosplay). But when we arrived, this ā€œballā€ was essentially a rave with fancier clothes and no glow sticks. Seriously. The attendees broke off into a few cliques like this was a school cafeteria and gyrate to the musicā€¦sometimes. The liveliest they got was during a line dance I didnā€™t know. I asked the DJs to play ā€œTank!ā€ by the Seatbelts, which is the theme song to Cowboy Bebop, since the Pokemon theme song was played earlierā€”and almost nobody got excited! ā€œHavenā€™t they seen this show?ā€ I wondered. The kicker, though, was every girl Eric and I asked to dance either didnā€™t know how or flat-out turned us down. The best I could get was doing a line dance when ā€œTime Warpā€ from The Rocky Horror Picture Show played, and even then people didnā€™t seem that excited and even fewer knew the line dance, so I wasnā€™t able to learn it. Eric and I left after an hour.

Seriously, Alma-Con. If you say itā€™s a ā€œmasquerade ball,ā€ make it a masquerade ball! You have a swing dance group on campus: try appealing to them a bit better to run this event.

::steps down from soapbox::

The next day was gonna feature our big event: the Nerd Chapel worship serviceā€¦

ā€¦and nobody came. L

So Eric and I shared communion and I recorded his sermon (which, come to think of it, I need to send to him to post onlineā€¦).

I left soon afterward so I could return in time to go to work that evening.

All in all, not a bad weekend.

All the Podcasts Iā€™ve Appeared On

Iā€™m keeping todayā€™s blog simple and helpful, especially for those who want a quick reference for all the places Iā€™ve appeared online. Or, at the very least, the podcasts Iā€™ve been on. So, hereā€™s an index of the shows and episodes Iā€™ve appeared in. I discuss everything from storytelling to video games to Godzilla (no surprise, right? šŸ˜› ).

Admittedly, there are few not listed here. I recorded a podcast with Zachery Oliver for ā€œTheology Gamingā€ that was lost when he had computer problems. The same thing happened with ā€œThe Bestselling Fiction Podcastā€ hosted by Dan Dynneson last summer. Iā€™ve subsequently recorded two more episodes with him that he has yet to post. I also appeared on GigaGeek Magazine’s podcast to talked about Star Wars: The Force Awakens, but I don’t have a link for that yet since it was broadcast live.

Regardless, happy listening!

Derailed Trains of Thought
A show on storytelling and creativity hosted by my friends Nick Hayden and Tim Deal

Episode 3: From Boredom to Book – They interview me when I published by first book, Pandoraā€™s Box.
Sidetrack 2: Peeking Inside the Box – I’m not in this, but an excerpt of my novel is read by Nickā€™s wife, Natasha.
Episode 17: Magic, Muggles, and Morals – I read an excerpt from Destroyer.
Episode 20: Everything But the Kitchen Sink – I’m one of multiple guests who returns briefly for the show’s first anniversary. I announce I’m writing new books.
Sidetrack 6: Children of the Wells Round Table – I and my collaborators talk about working on our ongoing post-apocalyptic contemporary fantasy series Children of the Wells.
Episode 50: Guest Starring…Everybody! ā€“ In this anniversary episode, I’m one of several returning guests who “audition” in multiple segments to be a third co-host.
Episode 61: Shut Up and Buy My Book ā€“ I return to DToT to discuss how writers can promote their books. In this day and age, writers must also do their own PR.

Strangers and Aliens
A show about faith, fantasy, and science fiction co-hosted by my buddy Ben Avery, who’s a comic writer

Episode 127: GODZILLA (Summer Movie Series) – I review the new Godzilla film with host Ben Avery.

Theology Gaming University
A show about Christianity and video games

Podcast #58 – Video Games Inspiring Other Media – Theology Gaming – My friend Eric Anderson and I discuss video game adaptations to other media with host Zachery Oliver.
Podcast #62 ā€“ I discuss why gamers replay video games theyā€™ve already played with host Zachery Oliver and TGU regular Bryan Hall.
TG Sessions #9 ā€“ Cheapness (I.e., Youā€™re Not Special) ā€“ Zachery Oliver and I discuss what makes certain things ā€œcheapā€ in both single-player and multiplayer video games.
TG Sessions #10 ā€“ Batmanā€™s Fifty Shades of White Privilege ā€“ Remember when this video made me a troll magnet? I also incurred the wrath of trolls about an essay I wrote for TGU. Zachery Oliver and I discuss all of this.
Podcast #72 ā€“ One in a Mijinion ā€“ I join Zachery Oliver and Roberto Iraheta 20 minutes in, and in our ramblings we set out to solve a very important mystery: What the heck is an Infinity Mijinion? (In case you donā€™t know, thatā€™s a Mega Man boss).

The Weekly Hijack
A ā€œspin-offā€ podcast from ā€œDerailed Trains of Thoughtā€ that discusses TV shows

-Episode 27: Doctor Who ā€“ The Magicianā€™s Apprentice ā€“ I discuss the season nine premiere of Doctor Who with Nick Hayden, Tim Deal, and several others. (Scroll through the episode listing to find it).

Are Extroverted Writers at a Disadvantage?

I do a Google search for “extroverted writer” and discover that an old TUFW classmate has a book on the subject. Who knew?

I sometimes wonder if my writing is hampered by my own personality. What do I mean by that? The fact that Iā€™m an extrovert.

Traditionally, writers are seen as introverts. Itā€™s not surprising since they have to retreat into their office (or, as I like to call it, the ā€œFortress of Solitudeā€) away from people and other distractions so they can pound out their daily word count. Writing is a lonely art and profession. Thatā€™s why it seemed best-suited for introverts, who thrive in such an environment. This isnā€™t to say there are no extroverted writers. Just look at journalists. Theyā€™re always out and about looking for material.

But then you have those rare birds like me who are extroverted but also filled with stories to tell. It does have its advantages (Iā€™m a pretty good salesman and enjoy networking), but I can be pulled away from actually writing if offered hang-out time. Thatā€™s partly why I had to institute a new plan for how much material I could produce. It doesnā€™t help that Iā€™ve seemingly become popular lately. This weekend alone I have several friends, my old English/writing professor, and family who want my attention this weekend. In anticipation of this, Iā€™ve been scrambling to get stuff done while also going to my day job, so you can imagine how stressful that can be. Admittedly, most of these deadlines are self-imposed, but they nonetheless hang over me. (Iā€™m particularly disappointed I havenā€™t made a new ā€œBut I Digressā€¦ā€ episode in a month).

To use the old adage, it seems like Iā€™m damned if I do, damned if I donā€™t. Either I produce new material but miss out on social activities or I socialize to reenergize myself but get nothing done. I canā€™t quite combine both activities (if you know how, please tell me!). What makes it doubly difficult is, as an extrovert, Iā€™m more easily drawn to being around other people, and by extension taken away from my work. That isnā€™t to say that I donā€™t love my work, because I do. Iā€™m a storyteller by nature. But I also know that if I didnā€™t have the discipline to say, ā€œNo,ā€ sometimesā€”indeed, oftentimesā€”Iā€™d never get anything written.

Yet as I type those words, Iā€™m reminded that procrastination is a common problem for most writers. Iā€™ve read many articles talking about how writers will often find anything else to do besides writing, how theyā€™ll come up with excuses not to do it. It could even be important things like chores that need done. And as I mentioned above, the majority of writers are introverts, so even theyā€™re guilty of not getting work done. They just have different reasons.

What do you, True Believers? Are extroverted writers at a disadvantage compared to their introverted peers? Do need to take special steps to remain productive in a normally solitary profession? What are those steps? Iā€™d love to hear your ideas!

Alma-Con and My New Writing Regimen

He kinda looks like me…if I was skinnier than a bean pole. šŸ˜›
Just a quick blog today since Iā€™m busier than a workaholic. At least thatā€™s how it feels. But thatā€™s a story for another time.

First, I want to announce that I plan, schedule permitting, to attend Alma-Con in Alma, Michigan, February 5-7. My friend/co-author Eric Anderson will be running a table for his ministry Nerd Chapel in the vendorā€™s hall, where he will also be selling our devotional, 42: Discovering Faith Through Fandom. Iā€™ll be there helping him with his table and a worship service he plans to have that Sunday. Feel free to come see us.

Now on to the main thrust of this blog.

Iā€™ve been thinking a lot about how I need to manage my writing time better, especially when I keep getting projects thrown at me and/or I bite off more than I can chew. So, in light of this, I wanted to share with you what I think should be a reasonable amount of material you can expect from me. It may take me a bit of time to get used to this new schedule, so donā€™t expect me to get into the rhythm immediately. I also reserve the right to change my output at any time.

Regardless, here it is:

-one (maybe two) articles a week for Examiner.
-at least two articles a month for GigaGeek Magazine.
-one (maybe two) blogs a week on my website.
-one ā€œBut I Digressā€¦ā€ video a month (with intermittent ā€œDigressionā€ videos as they come to me).

These are the things I want to do with regularity. Iā€™m seeking other freelance opportunities while also writing books, among other things.

Did I mention Iā€™m crazy?

Media Gluttons

My usual New Yearā€™s resolution to downsize and my recent frustrations with time management collided last week, and by their powers combined, turned my mind to a related topic. In this case, the consumptionā€”or rather, overconsumptionā€”of media.

Most of these speculative fiction books I haven't read yet. Don't judge me! (I'll let you guess which ones I have read). :P
Most of these speculative fiction books I haven’t read yet. Don’t judge me! (I’ll let you guess which ones I have read). šŸ˜›
A big reason I need to downsize is I have a bad habit of buying books on impulse, especially when theyā€™re on sale. As it stands, I have several shelves full of books I havenā€™t read but intend to. I want read them so I can eliminate them from my collection since I doubt Iā€™ll want to keep them all. Unfortunately, Iā€™m a self-described ā€œstory junkie,ā€ so I enjoy multiple forms of media, including video games, TV, and movies. The problem is I canā€™t keep up with all of it. For example, Iā€™ve lamented several times that there are so many superhero shows on TV, I canā€™t watch all of them.

I hear friends talking about the video games theyā€™ve played this year, and many of them I havenā€™t even touched. People rave about TV shows Iā€™ve never even seen. On Goodreads, people make yearly goals for how many books they want to read, some going as high as 100 books (that blows my mind!). Meanwhile, Iā€™m surrounded by screens bombarding me with images and ads about the latest movies and countless other things, many of which I want to experience, but Iā€™m already buried. Itā€™s to the point where Iā€™m finding creative ways to allow myself to be able to listen to audiobooks of some of the books on my shelf despite my carā€™s sound system being problematic (Iā€™m not sure when Iā€™ll be able to get it fixed).

Should I even bother mentioning that I also enjoy listening to music and podcasts?

Itā€™s no wonder many people nowadays seem to be hyperactive: their brains are constantly being stimulated. Iā€™m reminded of the Grinch from Dr. Seussā€™ classic book: ā€œAll the noise, noise, noise!ā€ The human mind can only take so much. There comes a point where it gets overloaded. I canā€™t spend my entire day consuming media just to get some notches on my belt. Nobody can. Itā€™s unhealthy. Even if I try to say Iā€™m ā€œsocializingā€ by, say, watching a movie with family and/or friends, itā€™s not the same as focused attention on those people. It requires meaningful interaction and conversations to foster intimacy. Iā€™m not saying itā€™s impossible to create that while consuming media (Iā€™d be lying if I said I didnā€™t have some great chats with friends while playing video games), but too often media is a distraction. And thatā€™s just one way it can be a hindrance.

Another is that people consume it mindlessly without taking into consideration what theyā€™re consuming. We all know people who just lounge on their recliner and flip through TV stations while complaining thereā€™s ā€œnothing on,ā€ yet they donā€™t turn the TV off and do something else. Iā€™ve never understood that.

Whatā€™s my point in all of this? Itā€™s good, perhaps even necessary, to unplug. Shut off the noise and enjoy people. Take some time for yourself. Your brain needs opportunities to slow down. Yeah, maybe you wonā€™t binge watch season two of Daredevil on Netflix as fast as others, but you may be a more well-rounded person because of it.

What are some ways you overconsume media? Have you cut back? What are some ways you could cut back?

I Should Be Writing, Not Blogging!

Itā€™s been one of those days. Or weeks. Or months.

Not only have I let my writing projects pile up higher than the stack of comics I needed to buy at my local shop (itā€™s what happens when you neglect to pick them up for two months), but somehow everyone and his dogā€™s cousin is vying for my attention. I have friends who want to hang out just because, for their birthdays, etc. I sometimes run errands for my family or spend time with them. I have my increasingly demanding ā€œday job.ā€ I have hobbies I try to enjoy now and then.

All of this is eating into my precious writing time. I havenā€™t penned a word in the next Children of the Wells novella in a month, nor have I touched Hopeā€™s War for a long time. My last Examiner article was in December. Yet here I am firing off a quick little blog because I resolved to be more consistent with posting content on my website. Blogging should be secondary to all my other writings.

Iā€™ve heard that a writer should never blog about how he hasnā€™t been writing much. I broke that ā€œruleā€ a long time ago, unfortunately. Besides, I hope I can use it as a lesson for aspiring writers.

Learn to say, ā€œNo.ā€

Itā€™s totally okay to do that.

Youā€™re only one person. You canā€™t do everything. If you want to be successful at anythingā€”especially writingā€”it will take sacrifice. Youā€™ll have to turn down many things, even good things, so that you can squeeze in that daily goal of 1,000 words or whatnot. Youā€™ll probably upset some people, but the ones who love you most will understand. In fact, they may eventually adjust their expectations and schedules to better accommodate your goals.

Iā€™m not sure how I became as ā€œpopularā€ as I am. I do, however, know that what I do with my time is my choice. I have no one to blame but myself if I miss a deadline or donā€™t get something done. I have an active mind that seeks as many creative outlets as possible. Iā€™m also a bit of a weird writer in that Iā€™m extroverted and have to come out of my writer-ly solitude to be with others. All of those things together can create a lot of tension. What am I saying? I know it does because Iā€™m experiencing it right now!

Thatā€™s why saying, ā€œNo,ā€ is an important skill to have. You canā€™t please everyone, no matter how hard you try. You have to learn to make priorities and stick to them. Otherwise, youā€™ll lose your mind. Iā€™m sure most loony bins have wards set aside for writers and other creatives who went crazy. Youā€™ll have plenty of collaborators and time to write, but I doubt anyone will publish you. šŸ˜›

Anyway, I have places to go, stuff to do, people to kill. (Waitā€¦did I say that out loud?)

My Top 5 Most Viewed Posts of 2015

Happy (belated) New Year, True Believers!

As is common around this time, people are doing retrospectives on the past year, so I thought I’d do something similar. In my case, I’m sharingĀ My Top 5 Most Viewed Blogs of 2015. Admittedly, I didn’t publish blogs as consistently as I should have–consider posting more to be aĀ resolution for 2016–but it was interesting to see what was viewed most often.

So, without further adieu…

Number 5:
Proxy Characters and Wish Fulfillment
Nearly a year ago, I wrote about how authors sometimes create characters who are “Mary Sues,” or characters that they see as idealized versions of themselves. I used Robert E. Howard and his most famous creation, Conan the Barbarian, as my example. I’m still trying to remember where I read that Howard saw Conan this way. I couldn’t find it anywhere online. It must’ve been in a book.

Number 4:
Attacking the Idol
A blog I wrote in response to the backlash I received when I made this satirical video that dared to bashĀ the Fifty Shades of Grey movie. It was one of several instances–all within a short span of time–that made me an internet troll magnet. (The other ones being my follow-up video and this essay for the Theology Gaming Blog). I was new to dealing with trolls, so I was a bit overwhelmed. I didn’t handle it as well I could’ve I think. Regardless, it was a learning experience.

Number 3:
Religious Freedom, Discrimination, and Gen-Con
Another controversial blog. It wasn’t necessarily a troll magnet like the ones I mentioned above, but it did get me a lot of attention. Being a Christian, a born-and-raised Hoosier, and a fan of Gen-Con ( I’ve sold books there since 2012), I was disappointed to hear that the convention’s founder was taking Governor Pence to task for the RFRA law he passed, erroneously believing it legalized discrimination against the LGBT community. It sparked some heated debates when I shared in in some Facebook groups.

Number 2:
‘Marvel vs. DC’ Movie coming in 2020!
This was my April Fool’s Day prank. I originally wrote this after seeing a slick fan-made trailer featuring superheroes from both DC Comics and Marvel Comics battling each other. It was published on my Examiner page for about ten minutes before being removed. That annoyed me since I’d seen plenty of joke articles published by other news sources. Regardless, I was proud of satirical efforts. Perhaps I should write for The Onion.

Number 1:
Upcoming Book Signings for 2015
I’m as surprised as you are. This was nothing more than a simple announcement–no bells or whistles or anything–and yet it’s by far my most-viewed post of 2015. Maybe it’s because of all the tags I put in it? Or all the Facebook groups I shared it in? The world may never know.

What was your favorite blog post from my website in 2015?

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